天佑鲍比（2009）

When the holy spirit controls your life,
会产生爱 愉悦和仁慈
It will produce love, joy and kindness,
善良和自♥制♥力
Goodness and self-control.
需要这样吗
Does everyone have to know?
我们是一家人 我们爱你
We’re your family. We love you.
我心灵纯洁 受上帝之善良庇佑
我们依然爱你 鲍比
We still love you, bobby.
谢谢 我能有点隐私吗
Yeah ,thanks, can i get some privacy?
-嘿 玛丽 -嘿
– Hi Mary! – Hi
当一个同性恋否认自己的性取向时
If a homosexual who wants to renounce homosexual reality
找一个知道如何
Finds a psychiastrist who
治愈同性恋的心理医生
Knows how to cure homosexuality…
他很有可能可以变成
He has every chance of becoming…
一个快乐正常的异性恋
A happy well adjusted heterosexual.
你有幻听吗
Do you hear any voices?
没有
No.
你有耳鸣吗
Do you ever hear any ringing sounds?
没有
No.
电♥话♥响了吗
Is that the phone?
开玩笑的
It was a joke.
所以你认为自己是同性恋吗
So you think you’re a homosexual?
鲍比 你和多少个女孩交往过
Bobby, how many girls have you been with?
忘记了 两个吧
I don’t know. Two.
有过性关系吗
Had sexual relations with?
那你怎么确定自己是同性恋
Then how do you know for sure?
我只是
I just…
有那种感觉 你知道吗
Have these feelings, you know?
我不是说你知道 我是说
I don’t mean you know. I mean…
我有那种感觉
I have these feelings.
你想当同性恋吗
Do you want to be homosexual?
我只想重新亲近我的家人
I just wanna be close with my family again.
一失足成千古恨
I feel like I slipped up and now I can’t…
无法回头
Get back.
我没办法帮你
I’m not gonna be able to help you…
除非你正面回答我的问题
If you don’t answer my questions.
不 我不想当同性恋
No, I don’t wanna be this way.
我要和你母亲单独谈一下 好吗
I’m gonna talk with your mother alone for a minute, ok?
她想和你谈
She wants to talk to you.
你可以治愈他的 对吗
He can be cured. Right?
他需要自愿接受改变才行
He has to be willing to really put the work in.
他当然想 我知道的
He is. I know he is.
我认为会有效果 更为重要的是
And I think it would be good, it would be important
你丈夫也能来参加疗程
To have your husband come join us in therapy.
好吧
Right…
情况如何
How did it go?
她建议我们应该花多点时间在一起
She said we should spend some more time together.
或许你俩应该
Maybe the two of you could spend
花多点时间亲近亲近
Some quality time together.
当然 没问题
Yes, sure.
60美元一小时 她就这点建议吗
That’s all she said for 60$ an hour?
她还建议我们三个一起参加若干疗程
She also wants the 3 of us to go to a few sessions together.
难道还是我们的错吗
What? So it’s our fault?
我搞不懂 你和他去就行了
No no… I don’t know about it but it’s fine if he goes.
鲍伯 我需要你帮我
Bob, I want you to be a part of this.
我一个人不行
I can’t do it alone, ok?
书上说同性恋在公共澡堂做♥爱♥
I read that homosexuals have sex in public bathrooms,
他们还引诱小孩
And that they recruit children.
你想说什么
What are you saying?
你觉得鲍比是被人引诱的吗
Do you think Bobby was recruited?
拜托 玛丽 你想太多了
Come on Mary, you’re going overboard.
你得做点什么 我不要失去他
You got to do something about this. I won’t lose him.
仁慈的主啊 请你让鲍比平安且远离诱惑
Dear lord, we ask that you keep Bobby safe from temptation.
帮助他找回纯洁的心
Please help him return to a pure heart.
你以为这样我就可以治愈吗
Do you think this will heal me?
你得相信主可以治愈你
You have to trust the god will heal you.
撒旦只会把你拖下无尽深渊
And that satan will try to discourage you.
你相信上帝吗
Do you trust in god?
嗯
Yeah.
让我睡觉吧
Now let me go to sleep.
当我们置身于诱惑之中
When temptation is all around you,
光有信念是不够的 我们需要自律
Faith is not enough. It requires discipline
不仅仅是精神上 还有肉体上的
Not just mental, but physical.
谁愿意和大家分享一下自身的经历
Who would like to share their story?
我曾经很抑郁
I used to be so unhappy.
夜不归宿
I stayed out all night,
跟我妈妈顶嘴
I talked back to my mother.
自从来到这里 奉耶稣为我的救世主
Since coming here and accepting jesus as my savior,
我改变了
I’ve changed..
我和妈妈现在成了最好的朋友
My mum and I are like best friends now.
太棒了 凯莉
That’s great Kerry.
这就是祷告和集♥会♥的力量
The power of prayer and hard work.
鲍比你呢 你做的怎么样
Bobby what about you? How are you coming along?
还行
Good…
你看起来好多了 不是吗
Well, you feel better. Don’t you?
我能从你的眼神看出来
I can see it in your eyes.
你的努力有所回报了 不是吗
Your hard works’ paid off. Hasn’t it?
是吧
Yeah…
让我们唱起颂歌♥
Let’s sing, shall we?
似乎无论我怎么做都是一样
Nothing I do seems to make a difference.
我试着像他们一样 但做不到
I try to act like them but it feels impossible.
想到自己会直接掉进炼狱
It’s an awful feeling to believe you can
这种痛楚无法言喻
Be headed straight for the fires of hell.
更甚的是每个人
Even worse is everyone telling
都说解决方法是如何简单
You how simple the solution is.
他们也不会感同身受
They don’t know what it is to be in my shoes.
我坚持跑步 拒绝垃圾食品
I’m running, I’m not eating junk food.
很好 很好
Good, good!
是很好 可是
Yeah, that’s good but…
我不明白这有什么意义
I don’t know the point of it.
我是说 我的气色是好多了
I mean, my face has cleared up but
但其余一切照旧
Everything else feels the same.
你得持之以恒
Well you have to stick with it.
小组里的人怎么样
Do you like the people in your group?
都还行
They’re ok.
有个女生 她…
This one girl, she…
你能不能认真对待这事
You know, I hope you’re taking this seriously.
我说真的 我希望你尽自己的全力
I mean that I hope you are trying with all your might.
我不能因为这个失去你
I cannot lose you to this.
你不会的
You won’t.
要有信心
Have faith!
这肯定会很好玩
Well this is gonna be fun.
上一次格里菲斯家的男人
When was the last time all the
集体远足是什么时候了
Griffith men went hiking together?
在学校怎样
So how’s school?
还行
Good.
有想过什么计划吗
You thought about your plans?
上大学吧
Well college…
不 我的意思是
No, I mean…
生活规划
Life plans.
我还是想当一名作家
Well, I’m still thinking of becoming a writer.
听着 鲍比 你有丰富的想象力
Listen Bobby, you always had a strong imagination.
这没什么不好
And we’ve always been alright with that.
但当你到了一定年纪
But you’re getting to the age where
你该学会面对现实
You’re gonna have to get practical.
说到作家
Alright, dreams…
你年轻时候还可以
They’re great when you’re young, but…
可是作家
They don’t really have…
在现实中好比浮萍 难以立足
Really have a place in the real world.
嗯
Yeah.
你有听进去我的话吗
You hear what I’m saying to you?
-嗯 -好了 快点走
– yeah. – alright, alright. Le’ts go, let’s move.